Okay.
The basics:
I love sex!
I am gay.
Normally, I am pretty much “open” to anything….SAFE.
But I also have a boyfriend now.
It is right now long-distance. And
we have been pretty ‘open’.
We might even consider some
experimentation in the…um…group thing. But that I think would be rare.
And this may change after we try it!
Ha!
I am also pretty willing to try new things…
so long as it doesn’t involve small animals,
a great deal of pain, or body fluids that belong in a toilet.
When it comes to sex in a committed relationship,
I like to think that all options are open so long
as there is honest and open communication.
Isn’t that the way it should be?
I believe in monogamy. Sometimes I doubt it is possible.
At least within a gay relationship.
I hope it is.
Anyone out there able to prove its
possible?
Anyone out there in a committed relationship for several years
where one or the other has not “strayed”?
I’m not saying it doesn’t happen. I would just love to hear it….
Gives me something to look forward too…
If you are in, or know someone in such a relationship,
please email me! I would like to know you.
Todays world is rough and
complicated. These days you have to wrap your body in latex just to stay
healthy. Sad, really, but a fact. I have known many people who have died from
AIDS, and many more that are positive and live with it every day.
Fortunately, I am HIV-. And I want
to keep it that way.
PLAY SAFE!
I am not a big believer in casual sex. I certainly am no angel,
and I have had my share. I have no regrets. I dare say I'll experience it
again. I think sex can be fun and good for a healthy mind. Too many people try
to complicate it. They seem to equate sex with love. I ahve done it. There is
NO doubt in my mind that sex is ALWAYS better with someone you love. But I try
not to confuse the two. I have had a few long term relationships, as I have
said. I was not always faithful. I say that because I feel it is important to
be honest. I won't offer reasons or excuses, but I will say that I wish it had
never happened.
I prefer a monogamous relationship.
I would never be able to tolerate dishonesty in this area, nor would I practice
it. But this is a personal issue that needs to be discussed on an individual
basis. It also depends on to what length we take the relationship, as well. I
would certainly never expect someone to commit after a first date. And nor
would I. And I recently decided that I want to "date" and REALLY get
to know someone before we take it to the bedroom. Won't find much of that in
the gay culture... But I would hope the person I begin dating would use some
restraint and common sense!If you are a 'player' or like to cheat or don't know
how to spell or pronounce "monogamous", you are not for me...
Okay. So there weren't any dirty
details, but I got ya to read it, didn't I? :-)
CyberSex
Okay…I confess…I tend to be a bit
voyeuristic and an exhibitionist. If this is an interst of yours, perhaps we
can chat. J
On a lighter note, this is my philosophy about how to end all the worlds
problems. Everyone should get laid first thing in the morning! (Im a morning
person, obviously!) Think about it...One look at Saddam Hussein and it is obvious
he hasn't gotten laid in years. Or Jesse Helms? I mean really. The guy needs
some serious let-loose-sex. If everyone got laid first thing in the morning,
everyone would show up late for work with a smile on their face! The work day
would start later. Everyone would have a good excuse. Everyone would glow.
Everyone would feel fulfilled! No more "going postal"! (Would that be
"cumming postal"?)
Sex is great. Sex is fun. Sex needs
to be safe. What do I like?
You'll just have to ask me in person. Obviously I like MEN!
But beyond that I try to keep open and adventurous.
I hate categories, and probably don't snuggly fit into any.
SHHHHHHH!!!!!!
J
Okay, now if you actually read this
far and found this…
My bf and I are…um…thinking about
experimenting a little with…perhaps…a …um.…third …person.
So like, if you fit the criteria,
and are really nice and sweet…
drop me/us a line and we’ll talk…he
he
The criteria? Well...he likes
gringos. I like Latin boys. But I don’t think we’d care either way so long as
you are cute, slim to trim, and under 28. Like hairless too. <grin>